For the past 30 years I've sat through hundreds, maybe thousands of hours worth of sermons, Bible Studies, book discussions and conversations on marriage and parenthood. Though I had no need for the information at the time, no practical application, I absorbed that information for the time when I would need it. For the time when I would be married and have children. I gently placed each and every tidbit in my heart like a girl filling her hope chest.
At times, I would open up the chest and look over all that I had, imagining the days when I would put all that great advice to use. I would be well supplied when I started up my new life with my spouse. I would hit the ground running when parenthood happened.
In 16 days I turn 50 years old and all the items in my hope chest have sat unused and they never will be. They've gathered dust, rusted, rotted. I wonder what I could have done with all that time I spent sitting through those sermons, etc. I wonder how much money I could have saved had I not spent it on those books. I feel as though all those people who told me that a time would come when I would be able to put that info to good use lied to me. I was tricked, deluded, used.
If I had a real hope chest filled with towels, sheets, dishes and other household goods I could donate them to charity, toss them in the garbage...or burn them. How do I get rid of all this unusable advice that is stored in my mind and heart? There's no way to get rid of it all. Every tiny morsel taunts me. It all weighs me down; my heart is heavy and burdened. How can I divest myself of all this clutter?