Thursday, November 23, 2006

Tradition

Like Tevya, from "Fiddler on the Roof", I like tradition. But since the death of my mom twelve years ago, our family traditions have change dramatically. They would have changed anyway - everything does. People move out of town, weather or illness keep people at home, family situations change... But things were forced along more quickly than they would normally have occurred without mom. I mourn the loss of the Thanksgiving traditions of my youth. The new traditions don't measure up at all. And so I look forward to heaven, where new traditions will be established, and if they change it won't be cause for mourning, but for new dancing.

1 comment:

Adiel said...

I understand completely. I feel like we’re still trying to figure out how to make holidays and birthdays, etc. work without mom. I try to make new traditions for my own family, but it doesn’t seem fair that I have to be the one “in charge” of it all instead of my mom.